The last thing you want to do is to turn her off during lovemaking
Many men not only make mistakes but are also blissfully unaware of the mistakes they make in bed. That is where India’s biggest condom brand, Manforce, comes in. We’re always going to be there to answer all the questions you might have, about the area in your life that you might be too shy to ask about.
That is why we’ve come up with a list of the most common mistakes that men make in bed and how to deal with them. Trust us, follow these and watch her go ga-ga!
Most men have the habit of staying silent during lovemaking. Eerily silent. While you might have never thought about it, it makes your partner feel alienated, leading to her questioning if she’s even pleasuring you. While you don’t need to scream out loud, let her know that you’re enjoying her in a genuine way.
“Try and enjoy the experience and she’ll feel like she’s with a man who actually knows what he’s doing.”
The majority of men tend to breeze through foreplay. A couple of kisses here and a few caresses there is about what most men do before they jump right into “it”. Longer foreplays are guaranteed to lead to more fulfilling encounters.
Talking about the “holy grail”, you need to stop approaching lovemaking with only reaching orgasm. You got to stop pressurizing yourself or your partner to hit the finish line as quick as possible. Do not rush, try and enjoy the experience and she’ll feel like she’s with a man who actually knows what he’s doing.
No matter what so many erotic videos tell you, women don’t like it if you just “ram” your fingers “in”. There’s a certain way you do it, and you need to learn how. You should take a measured approach; make her used to the feel of your fingers as you insert more of them. While there’s always room for intensity, a little nuance will take you a long way.
A major misconception that plagues most men is that simply pounding women is a major turn on for them. You’ll need to gauge her response to what you’re doing. If she is enjoying you going harder, by all means, oblige. But if she’s not enjoying it so much, take it slow. A great way to help her climax is varying your speed throughout the “deed”.
You might have heard that she loves clitoral stimulation more than penetration. But you also need to know that she doesn’t want you to treat it like a scratch card and rub it relentlessly to make her climax. It’s extremely sensitive, so you need to treat it gently.
What many don’t realize is that there’s more to her body than her assets, her derriere and her “abyss”. From the neck to her feet, there are many places for you to explore and stimulate. You should keep in mind that variety is the spice of life.
As long as it’s consensual, there’s nothing wrong with a bit of roughness. However, do not take it too far. A dabble in a bit of BDSM is okay as long as you show some compassion later. Keep in mind to cuddle and snuggle after a bit of rough play.
Avoid these common mistakes and you’ll notice a change in your sex life soon. Don’t blame us if she can’t seem to be able to get her hands away from you! You could also add Manforce flavoured condoms to the equation to take your love making to new heights. All our products are conveniently available in our online condom store.