Ask any long time couple and they’ll tell you that it’s easy for couples to fall into a predictable routine in their intimate lives: convenience, lack of time or just force of habit are the main culprits for taking the sizzle out of sex.
You might have tried different positions but have you tried making love to different people? No, we do not mean cheating or threesome. We meant you and your partner being different people. Roleplaying is about escapism. You can leave the stress of the real world behind and embrace all of the things that you might be afraid to try as yourself.
However, before you try something too crazy, it is important that you discuss your fantasy first, just so you know that you’re both on the same page. This can lead to some shattering orgasms for both you and your partner. If you do decide to take the plunge, here are some great characters to help broaden your sexual horizons in the bedroom.
Pick a favorite sexy song, surprise her with some lacy lingerie, then get her to sway her hips and let yourself get the perfect lap dance.
“One of you can pretend to be a bit naive”
While the other takes control and “teaches” the first all about sex.
Who hasn’t dreamt of being a sports star? Well no one says you can’t. Get your partner some pom poms and let the games begin!
Arrive separately to the same bar, flirt a little bit with other people, then eventually go and talk to one another like you’re strangers. This will get the feelings flowing as you start to remember exactly what drew you to each other in the first place.
Do a bit of playful spanking and some light hair pulling to determine if you want to go further. You two can also explore your options together. Of course, if one isn’t comfortable with a specific role, then certainly don’t push yourselves into it, but if you are feeling flexible, changing it up could be fun.
Regardless of what it is, if you two have a sex scene or film you find particularly entrancing, act it out with one another and see how it feels.
For anybody who had a little teacher fetish in his or her early twenties, this role-playing situation is more fun than a cliché.
Let your partner list exactly what he or she wants as you act like like a call girl who’s there to cater to their every need.
Your partner plays the sexy star and you can be her secret admirer. Ask her to do her hair, makeup, get her a fancy gown and encourage her to unleash her inner diva.
Watch your partner masturbate for an extended period of time to increase tension and enjoy the view.
Snag some sexy massage oil, light a few candles and give one another massages until you’re both feeling smooth, silky and ready to be touched further.
Have your partner bring you wine, feed you grapes, rub your feet, and just do all the general things we see in depictions of Renaissance royals and their servants.
Cliché? Yes. Fun? Also yes.
If one of you is artistically inclined, break out the easel and brushes, then have one pose naked as the other immortalizes them on canvas.
Ever watched the movie Secretary? If that’s not your thing, then she can be your hot boss!
Unleash the inner star in you and actually film yourselves having sex. Not only will it turn you both on, it will ensure you two will be at the top of your game.
Get her to slip into a sexy maid costume and after one knock on the door from “housekeeping” things will heat up in no time.
Pajamas, by default, always look great on women. There is literally nothing out there that’s sleepwear-related that doesn’t look sexy on women. Some things, however, are sexier than others, it’s not just “alright, I’m into that” and but more of a “blinded by the sun” experience!
That is why you should definitely try these role-plays out and start the year off with a bang.