Oral sex involves using your tongue or mouth in order to stimulate your partner’s genitals. Several people enjoy it but it is a very personal choice, hence it’s not everyone’s cup of tea.
Different people like to give or receive oral sex in various ways. In the end, it is important to talk to your partner and understand what they enjoy and things that should be avoided.
Talk to your partner about his/her preference
People have different tastes. Some like it when their partner licks or kiss their genitals, whereas for some it is all about the energy. While your last partner might have loved when you did XYZ, your new partner might find that completely uncomfortable. Instead of guessing what they might like, just ask them.
"Before you start, make sure that you are in a comfortable position in which you feel relaxed"
Usually, women may take a longer time to climax during oral sex when compared to penetrative sex. Therefore, make sure that you are in a comfortable position. Put cushions, pillows, and duvets around, as it can help make the experience more relaxing, and allowing you to experiment with different angles. You can also seek help from sex toys just to see what works best for you. Don’t forget to keep your flavoured condom at the side table, all ready for use. Just to be safer, one should wear a condom even during oral sex.
Don't think about the orgasm
Both men and women are guilty of thinking about the end goal (orgasm) so much that they forget to enjoy the whole process. This sometimes can spoil the mood completely. Women often get worried about the length of time it is taking for them to climax, and think that their partner is getting bored. On the other hand, men worry that their partner is not climaxing and get nervous thinking that they are not enjoying what they are doing (Despite enjoying every second of it!). Here, the most important thing to practice is concentrating on relaxing and enjoying the intimate closeness that you both share.
Switch or take breaks
One of the biggest misconceptions that come with oral sex is that it needs to be done in one take, like some movie. In fact, it is way more fun and enjoyable when you take breaks or switch. This may not work when you are tight on time. However, if you have the whole night ahead of you, stopping and switching can be a good tactic and lead to a great orgasm! It is very normal to get tired after a point in time. And, if you give oral to them for a bit and then have them return the favour- you will renew your arousal in a different way.
These were some of the ways you can improve your oral game and enjoy the night. However, do not forget to use your flavoured condoms for protection and in order to enhance your experience.